Thanks a lot… I’m actually wearing a mask in all the photos so Heidi doesn’t feel too bad… I’m way more gorgeous than that normally!

I was going to ask for you to submit a portfolio of your video-editing skills for approval before we do business together… but then of course I remembered that I already have such media… “[accent of Cletus from Simpsons] Happy Birthday Sam” A+

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Thanks a lot for your wishes and I obviously return the sentiment to you too.

Sparklife.info will resume with rejuvenated furore next week!

Sam

Yes that’s fine although I would appreciate you linking back to where you got the quote from on my website.

I am on twitter… You can find my profile by clicking on the ‘follow me on twitter’ button near the top right-hand corner of this page.

Thanks,

Sam

Happy New Year!

Sam

I understand what you mean but like I said in the comment above, I know my other-half wouldn’t be the same person without that unique past of theirs. This goes for past boyfriends and girlfriends too. You learn something from every relationship so without that experience, it is very hard to know exactly what is right for you. Like you said, the video wasn’t meant to emphasise that part of it anyway and it was more about highlighting the process I believe is the only way to find a partner who is not just satisfactory, but is PERFECT!

As for the time-span, the pictures were taken over the last four or five years. I didn’t have time to sift through all the thousands of photos I have so they are all fairly randomly selected from various albums.

I’m glad you’re excited about the e-book. I’m afraid I’m going to keep the contents as a surprise for now as it is still in the draft stages but it will combine both dating and relationship principles to create something that everyone can use. I’m also going to make sure it is fully complete before releasing it so I’ll give more updates when I can, probably mainly on twitter.

Merry Christmas to you too and thanks for commenting,

Sam

Hehe well I was hoping it wouldn’t come across quite like that! Aside from wanting to test my video-editing skills, the educational aspect was meant to encourage people through example to take action if they actually want to find someone they really connect with on a deep and intimate level. It was meant to show how I’m not with Heidi through luck, chance or a lack of other options… I made the effort to meet lots of different women (making lots of great friends along the way), whilst working out what I really wanted in a relationship and learning to understand women to the stage I am at now. Then at the end of it, Heidi was the one who I mutually decided to be with.

It’s fair to say that most people don’t make this untold effort, and limit themselves to a far smaller batch of people to find a fulfilling relationship from, such as small social circles and branches of those social circles. Whilst they can still come out the other side in a happy relationship and obviously lots of people do, I personally wanted to make sure I was really with someone as good as it gets for me. It stands to reason that this is true for most people.

Heidi understands that had I not gone through this process, I would probably never have met her (especially in the way that I did) and I would be a far less developed boyfriend had I not learnt from those many previous relationships.

It was also a video so that people can relate to me a bit better. They aren’t all ex-girlfriends in the first half of the video but I did meet them all through my own doing, and the majority of the people shown remain good friends of mine… even the ex-girlfriends!

Hopefully that explains it a bit better… Please don’t break up with me!!

Sam