Thank you for your kind words; I’m glad you find the articles useful!

I’ve decided that my next few articles will cover some more of these topics so watch out for those. Female orgasms are a vast topic and I have plenty to write about on them.

I’m not sure if you meant female ejaculation at the end of your post but female masturbation, like most sexual practices is most certainly safe if done correctly.

Thanks for your feedback,

Sam

Please i will like you to go into detail about clitoral orgasm and vagina orgasms and how safe is female self-masturbation.

thanks

It is something I intend to write about on this website in more detail at some point, depending on reader interest but basically, a clitoral orgasm is achieved through stimulation of the clitoris. This is generally the way most women teach themselves to orgasm when first experimenting with self-masturbation, which unfortunately conditions a lot of women to believe it is the only way they can reach orgasm.

Vaginal orgasms on the other hand are generally achieved through stimulation of the female ‘g-spot’, which leads to things such as ‘full body orgasms’ and the widely misunderstood concept of ‘female ejaculation’.

Like I said, I will probably dedicate articles of their own to these topics but e-mail me if you want any further knowledge on the matter in the meantime, to avoid going too off-topic here.

Cheers,

Sam

Haha that’s a great idea… Let me know if you ever get a prototype up and running!

Yes, I can imagine saying something like that would kill the passion a tad… It does become a lot easier to decipher orgasms (the difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms for example) with experience though (especially if it is with the same woman).

Thanks for your comment (and invention)

Sam

I assume ‘Family Feud’ is an American show… It sounds a lot like ‘Family Fortunes’ with the legendary Les Dennis… although with more interesting questions it seems… We have questions like “things found in a park”… Scandalous!!

That is really eye-opening though… Housework and shaving legs I can understand (thankyou ladies for doing both of those by the way, on behalf of all men ) but sex certainly shouldn’t be up there! You’re right, couples should definitely take matters into their own hands and discover new ways to sexual fulfilment if they’re not enjoying sex even slightly.

Thanks for your comment and support,

Sam x

Oh and I have the awesome book on your website link… I’m on the cusp of deciding to buy one of those ‘I love female orgasm’ t-shirts too!!

Yes you’re right… Anyone who thinks they are already the best lover they can be probably has a lot to learn!

I have some great research books on topics surrounding sexual polarity that I don’t know the titles of off the top of my head but e-mail me if you would like to know them.

That’s great, I would definitely recommend being more proactive in letting your partner know how to pleasure you fully. A lot of men don’t actually know they are lousy lovers, thinking that if they themselves are enjoying it, then surely their woman is too. Take this as my public service announcement for women to MAKE their men great lovers, rather than expect them to be naturally!

As for my references to talking about sexual topics with your partner: obviously keep any in-depth or detailed discussions for other times. Actually during sex I was more referring to saying things such as, “how do you like [x]” or “would you like me to try [y]”. This can be expanded into ‘dirty talk’, which is a HUGELY underrated activity. People don’t realise how much they enjoy dirty talk until they experience it first hand.

Thanks for your comment Jill and I’m glad you like the addition of some more sexual articles…

Sam