Comments on: Starting a relationship in the best possible way http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/starting-relationship/ Relationship and Dating Advice Fri, 18 May 2012 12:28:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Samuel McCrohan http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/starting-relationship/#comment-3607 Samuel McCrohan Thu, 03 Jun 2010 09:56:59 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=78#comment-3607 Thanks Collene; keep in touch! :) Thanks Collene; keep in touch! :)

]]> By: Collene Mainard http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/starting-relationship/#comment-3605 Collene Mainard Mon, 31 May 2010 20:37:41 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=78#comment-3605 There are some really great ideas here. Can't wait to put some of these into action. Its really going to bring good vibrations where the vibrations should be. :-) There are some really great ideas here. Can’t wait to put some of these into action. Its really going to bring good vibrations where the vibrations should be. :-)

]]> By: Samuel McCrohan http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/starting-relationship/#comment-169 Samuel McCrohan Fri, 24 Apr 2009 23:29:54 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=78#comment-169 Hi Elena, Great points! Respect is definitely important in asserting yourself in any social situation, especially in relationships. I’m not sure I would use the word “demand” in front of it as some people take that the wrong way and end up coming across as slightly arrogant but the point is still valid. I definitely agree about knowing yourself and speaking your mind as a healthy equality in a relationship; great points! :) Sam Hi Elena,

Great points! Respect is definitely important in asserting yourself in any social situation, especially in relationships. I’m not sure I would use the word “demand” in front of it as some people take that the wrong way and end up coming across as slightly arrogant but the point is still valid.

I definitely agree about knowing yourself and speaking your mind as a healthy equality in a relationship; great points! :)

Sam

]]> By: Elena http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/starting-relationship/#comment-167 Elena Fri, 24 Apr 2009 16:27:40 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=78#comment-167 This was an especially informative article. I once heard a quote that said if you don't want people to walk all over you then demand respect. Too many people are so worried about impressing the other person at the beginning of the relationship, they lose sight of themselves and then when they reach that comfort level, they go back to their true nature. The most important thing in going into a new relationship is to know yourself and not be afraid to speak up when you need to if the situation warrants it. Again, great post. This was an especially informative article. I once heard a quote that said if you don’t want people to walk all over you then demand respect. Too many people are so worried about impressing the other person at the beginning of the relationship, they lose sight of themselves and then when they reach that comfort level, they go back to their true nature. The most important thing in going into a new relationship is to know yourself and not be afraid to speak up when you need to if the situation warrants it. Again, great post.

]]> By: Samuel McCrohan http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/starting-relationship/#comment-19 Samuel McCrohan Tue, 17 Mar 2009 00:56:06 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=78#comment-19 I definitely agree with you. The only thing is that if someone does have a weak character, it's not something they can really change overnight. That's why I would suggest slowly introducing the characteristics of a strong-willed person into the relationship over time, as that person develops confidence in the situation. To be honest though, someone would only need to do this if they really feel they're being overrun or controlled by their partner. Some people are actually happy in dominant relationships. Thanks for your comment. :) Sam I definitely agree with you. The only thing is that if someone does have a weak character, it’s not something they can really change overnight. That’s why I would suggest slowly introducing the characteristics of a strong-willed person into the relationship over time, as that person develops confidence in the situation. To be honest though, someone would only need to do this if they really feel they’re being overrun or controlled by their partner. Some people are actually happy in dominant relationships.
Thanks for your comment. :)
Sam

]]> By: PermissionToCum.com http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/starting-relationship/#comment-18 PermissionToCum.com Mon, 16 Mar 2009 19:02:08 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=78#comment-18 The only thing I disagree with in this article is that you cannot change the boundaries of a relationship once it's set on a certain track. If you impose change what you will and won't accept later on in the relationship, that's fine, as long as your strong enough to do that. If you are a weak person and do it in a weak way, then you will fail. But the problem there is not that you didn't started the relationship off on the wrong track, the problem is that you are a weak person. I agree with you, though, that it's absolutely paramount to have a line of what behaviours you will and won't accept in a relationship. The only thing I disagree with in this article is that you cannot change the boundaries of a relationship once it’s set on a certain track.
If you impose change what you will and won’t accept later on in the relationship, that’s fine, as long as your strong enough to do that. If you are a weak person and do it in a weak way, then you will fail. But the problem there is not that you didn’t started the relationship off on the wrong track, the problem is that you are a weak person.

I agree with you, though, that it’s absolutely paramount to have a line of what behaviours you will and won’t accept in a relationship.

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