Comments on: The perfect first date http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/perfect-first-date/ Relationship and Dating Advice Wed, 08 Sep 2010 00:49:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Samuel McCrohan http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/perfect-first-date/#comment-17 Samuel McCrohan Mon, 16 Mar 2009 18:45:02 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=92#comment-17 Us British folk absolutely love queues (you should see our local post-offices) but yer that does sound kinda EF! Perhaps you could date someone who has their own private theme-park... A certain 'king of pop' springs to mind. :) I actually agree about the asking before kissing thing. I recommend (girl or guy can say this) saying, "would you like to kiss me?" when you think the time is right. Sounds kinda cheesy but it alleviates any awkwardness or 'getting the timing wrong'. It's got a distinct difference to "can I kiss you" because it has a built-in get-out clause if they say no... "Well I didn't say you could, you just look like you have something on your mind" and then carry on chatting. :) Credit to a crazy magician called Mystery for that one... and I don't recommend much by him anymore so hey ho. Thanks for your comment darl, Sam Us British folk absolutely love queues (you should see our local post-offices) but yer that does sound kinda EF! Perhaps you could date someone who has their own private theme-park… A certain ‘king of pop’ springs to mind. :)
I actually agree about the asking before kissing thing. I recommend (girl or guy can say this) saying, “would you like to kiss me?” when you think the time is right. Sounds kinda cheesy but it alleviates any awkwardness or ‘getting the timing wrong’. It’s got a distinct difference to “can I kiss you” because it has a built-in get-out clause if they say no… “Well I didn’t say you could, you just look like you have something on your mind” and then carry on chatting. :)
Credit to a crazy magician called Mystery for that one… and I don’t recommend much by him anymore so hey ho.
Thanks for your comment darl,
Sam

]]> By: Chriddy Cent http://sparklife.info/blog/2009/03/perfect-first-date/#comment-16 Chriddy Cent Mon, 16 Mar 2009 17:55:12 +0000 http://sparklife.info/blog/?p=92#comment-16 I agree with the no-dinner-as-a-first date rule. Or any similar situation. I once went on a first date with a guy to an amusement park and it ended up with us waiting in line for hours and awkwardly talking to other people in line because we couldn't think of anything to talk to each other about. It seemed like an awesome idea, but epiiiic fail. And movies are definitely second date material. Fun article-- it definitely made my physics lecture more interesting:) -Christy ps- I think its incredibly sexy if a guy asks if he can kiss me before he does ... (and guys seem to think it's cute when i ask). My girlfriends tell me this is really stupid though, so maybe its just me:) I agree with the no-dinner-as-a-first date rule. Or any similar situation. I once went on a first date with a guy to an amusement park and it ended up with us waiting in line for hours and awkwardly talking to other people in line because we couldn’t think of anything to talk to each other about. It seemed like an awesome idea, but epiiiic fail. And movies are definitely second date material.

Fun article– it definitely made my physics lecture more interesting:)

-Christy

ps- I think its incredibly sexy if a guy asks if he can kiss me before he does … (and guys seem to think it’s cute when i ask). My girlfriends tell me this is really stupid though, so maybe its just me:)

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