Before I get into more in-depth dating techniques and advice, as well as actually starting on more substantial relationship advice, I thought I would go through a couple of common dating myths that are floating around. I’ve heard these phrases and similar come from many different sources time and time again, so I thought I would lay them to rest once and for all…
“Women don’t enjoy sex”:
This is absolutely the most absurd myth floating around… that women don’t enjoy sex! On the contrary, most of my female friends can’t get enough of sex and demand it from their men more than is healthy… Ever heard of multiple orgasms? The difference is that due to modern culture, women don’t like to admit they want sex and be branded a slut.
This myth is especially rife in a clubbing environment and most girls will say they are going out “to dance”. Do you really think women spend several hours choosing the perfect outfit (usually showing off an excessive amount of leg and cleavage), fixing their makeup multiple times, doing their hair with the precision of a rocket launch and generally presenting themselves as a sexual-being just so they can dance? Look, if girls JUST wanted to listen to music and drink with their girl-buddies, they would have a little gathering with CDs and cheap wine at home. Girls go out to FIND SEX, just like guys. That’s not saying they would go out and have sex with anything or anyone… This would alienate them from their peer group and oppose their biological instinct to mate with a man of strength and power, who has the ability to successfully rear her children. However, a woman’s FANTASY is that she will go out and be confronted by her Prince Charming, who will whisk her off her feet and take her back to his castle for uninhibited, lustful sex. Note that the rules change slightly for girls who are already in happy relationships and this is something that I will specifically discuss in an upcoming post. 
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This is the second part in the list of ’10 things you can do right now to improve your love life’. The first part can be found HERE.
6) Smile, be warming and remember people’s names:
These three characteristics can be summed up by the term ‘friendliness’ and although most of us are taught these principles from an early age, it is amazing how many people don’t apply them ALL the time, due to their own negative self-esteem, contempt for society due to personal issues or just downright laziness!
A genuine smile is the universal display of confidence and friendliness. By genuine I mean one that radiates across the whole face like you’re ecstatic to see everyone you meet. Make sure you don’t just smile with the mouth but with your eyes and your teeth too and then everyone will be happy to be in your presence. A good example of someone who smiles like this is Joey from the American sitcom ‘Friends’.. [Continue reading this post...]
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Everyone knows that first impressions are key and research shows that humans will judge the most about you as a person within the first SEVEN seconds of meeting you!! This sounds absurd but it actually stems from a built-in survival technique in humans to judge who we will benefit from getting to know and who is, without being overly harsh, probably not worth knowing. Obviously these days it doesn’t transpire as cut and dry as this but you will still find that the more you work on your first impression, the more you will flourish in social interactions. Below is the first part of a list of ten things you can do to help you achieve this and ultimately improve your chances of dating the men or women you desire…
1) Smarten up your appearance:
It’s a sad affair how much we get judged by our appearance but if you think about it, your appearance says an awful lot about you. It shows how much you pride yourself and how willing you are to make the effort to present yourself in the best possible way. Not to mention if you think you look good, you will ultimately feel good about yourself, which is key to making a great first impression! [Continue reading this post...]
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